Hey Erin!! I thought you were incredible!! On your list of “31 Things I Wish I'd Known About Dating When I was 21”/ http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/single-ish/2010/02/31-things-i-wish-id-known-abou.html  I think it’s crazy to find someone you love. …and I almost believe it’s impossible for a beautiful girl and more so for a sincere guy…… especially with a one sided relationship… TV is an explanation…. Football, beer and commercials ….no responsibility for any action or touchdown! Lol!! My experience is girls love this and there’s no other explanation for a relationship that works… I’m sure every girl wants to make a touchdown once they can… But I’m also sure they regret some of their relations... guys are the same way… How many touchdowns can I secure before the quarter….. And halftime is mine because... No one gets in the way of halftime cheerleaders…  rolling.over.and.laughing.my.ass.off! Because no girl stands in the way of another girl who is a winner when they are a loser….. She is the dominator… and I’m the land which she dominates…. Stricken by her beauty…. I must forfeit…. And give her control…. loL! If I give her the super bowl.. I might give her touchdowns and counterfeit the game…. But I will not lose!!! I am a winner!!!! And she is a loser!!! That is… if she plays the game straight and submits to defeat… with me being the winner!!?… If not I’ll find a bigger winner... and call and make her loser…. And I’ll reign supreme!! And everyone will accept me because I won!!! Fourteen points and none for any girl…… ok... maybe Bill I lost to her that time but my points were up by halftime… did you see the strategy I used a couple minutes after the first quarter… Lol!!!  I won!! And she lost!!!!! She didn’t have anything on me..... She lost and I won… She is the loser… I have a car, house, money and a master’s degree in relationships and economical structure….  She is wrong I am almighty! Allot of girls and guys with a relation with any dominate gain....... Will be in it even if it means they will have to make a sacrifice for their sister, brother, mother and father or their lives foundation …….says me a non-expert lol!!!!!!!... Let the servant be the master and the master the servant… sounds right about now…… but no... Servants serve as servants and masters dominate as masters…. I have gone through stages I am 26 now and not in a relationship and am a male with responsibilities and dreams... How other people work and live is not my concern…. How I live and work is... no this doesn’t concern my sister… and no this doesn’t concern my mother ……..and it doesn’t mean compromising on a relation….. It means I win and so do you!!! Not a draw and not a compromise and not any sort of defeat or win! I’m talking about relations that fulfill me!!!! And not ones that work… Lol! One of my instructors instructions I was instructed in told me was to learn how to play with myself then others… sounds right don’t you think??? I find hope!!!!!!!!!! I can learn how a relationship works not by being in one at all!!!! But by observing what I want… and by observing how to get it …and what school or degree I need… or car I need to get... Or drug I need to use in order to dominate the relationship I want… I am a winner to all you losers!! Who lose!! And are defeated!! I have what you don’t have and that’s called girls of any national or prominence!! How… you say??? It’s because I am a billionaire and that means I am dominate… and dominate you…. Unless you are on my team and you lose….you become a loser that has no prominence and likewise no winners… so have relation with my winners and don’t touch my relations if you are a loser…. Super bowl for them is at halftime..... Don’t worry about desert I am a winner and about those losers …all the losers will be won after I win… lol!!!!!!!! Doesn’t sound right??? Make it happen!! Might does not make right…. Right makes might……

Christopher G. Hagadone